The Incredible Shrinking Woman

Warning: this post is about women being silenced, being made invisible. It includes discussion about rape. A 1957 movie, The Incredible Shrinking Man follows Scott Carey, who after exposure to a strange radiation cloud and insecticide, begins to shrink relentlessly. As his size diminishes, everyday objects and creatures become life-threatening, forcing him into a struggle …

Heart Over Mind: Embracing True Aliveness

Living in my heart, leaving the body-mind paradigm behind, feels like insanity. Is stepping away from the old paradigm even possible in this storybook life? Yes. It seems it is and I’m as surprised as you are. It feels like a choice, but it isn’t, not really. The protective layers wrapped around this body have …

The Quest for Truth: Bye-Bye Seeker

What are you seeking? Most everyone is looking for something: more material stuff, better health or improved looks, a way to get ahead (legally or not), happiness and peace (however you define it), revenge, the fountain of youth, a way to be okay, a way to escape the pains of life, a more humane world, …

Masks of Pain: Unraveling Our Stories of Worth

The Phantom of the Opera is a favorite of mine. I identified, not with Christine, but with the Phantom, with the one who hid pain behind the mask. I didn’t want to see Christine choose a healthy love; I was silently hoping that she would choose the unlovable monster. I guess it isn’t a surprise …

Something Truly Worth Saving

The thing that surprises me (well life surprises me, but this particular one wanted to be written about today) is that 338,000,000 people can’t, or haven’t the will, to oust a man who is obviously and literally destroying the country. We seem content to let the system work, to wait for elections, to trust in …

It Is Time

I am reminded of a vision I was given many years ago. “I saw a woman with a long white braid walking toward a polluted river. Eyes brimming with tears, she bent down on one knee to embrace the earth. I could feel love emanating from her. She leaned over and one single tear fell …

Surfing the Seamless Sameness …

When you realize ‘why’ is irrelevant, that even if it wasn’t, there really is no true answer, that anything you come up with is merely your current best understanding, a thought, a belief that is bound for change … When you’ve seen that ‘how’ will reveal itself in its own good timing, that it isn’t …

A Confluence of Spirituality and Humanity

There is an interesting confluence of spirituality and humanity occurring. I wondered what it would be. Now I see clearly. In the past I have referred to the intersection of divine and human as the center of the cross, the sweet spot where we are what is, where we pour love onto saint and sinner …

The Storyless Story

I am human and even that label is more than suspect. Any label you attach to me is in error. Labels merely point to how you perceive that I am showing up in the moment, how you want me to show up, or how you believe I showed up in what you deem our past. …

An Unstoried Life

There is a deep responsibility for life that lives within each of us. As we move along the spiritual path we learn to surrender, to let life be as it is, for it is as it is whether we let it be or not. Eventually when the surrender is complete, a new understanding dawns: this …

The Reality of Mortality

It doesn’t matter if you are black or white, red or blue, able to pay the bills, squeaking by or living in a tent, life on planet earth will eventually break you. The only difference is how long it takes before you truly grok the fact that no one gets out of here alive and …

Holy and Broken Love

I’ve been listening to performances of Cohen’s ‘Hallelujah’. Listening and singing along, paying attention to the verses that vary from version to version. Today they struck a different tone for me and got me thinking, wondering, feeling into the depths of love, and how we say we love, but realizing that most of the time …